Day 36 Be Honest With Yourself

You must be honest with yourself. People often try to hide who they truly are by trying to be normal and fit in with the crowd. Honesty is one of the most attractive qualities you can possess. Some people have become so good at hiding parts of themselves that they don't even realize a part of them is gone and has been replaced by an empty feeling or thing. And we can all do it at times. If we want others who are honest, and to be honest with us, we ourselves must be honest.......


We suffer from insecurities, we don't accept who we are, and we self-sabotage ourselves through addictions and other behaviors that don't get us what we truly want. Often, we see how we aren't being honest with ourselves in terms of any relationships. When relationships are healthy, happy and balanced, chances are that the people are in touch with who they really are, and are able to communicate who they are effectively. Love relationships that are one-sided, abusive or maybe even a little too perfect can be the result of one or both partners not being in touch with who they really are and hiding the parts they don't want seen.

When you have a strong sense of self, when you feel like you are a worthy person, it doesn't matter what other people think of you. You don't feel the need to be judgmental of others or gossip about others because you are secure with yourself and therefore grounded in acceptance of yourself and other people. You do, and say what you feel Is right for you, In a healthy way, and don't say yes when you want to say no! Honestly!

Just start to imagine what it would feel like to truly be really free to be who you are. If doing this makes you feel really happy, then you may not be hiding too much. If it is making you sad, then you may have an inner longing to be your authentic "TRUE" self. Then start being your true self daily, not worrying about controlling things or others. You will be so free In your Heart and Soul!

In being honest with yourself, you will never feel stupid. Being honest with yourself is having real emotions. Use tools to help you be more open and honest.......Really Is life changing to the heart and Soul.

Get Up earlier than usual

Set some time aside for yourself, find a quiet space where you can sit and think.

Choose a focus. Good ones include goals, career, money, family, spirituality, and love.


Take stock. What is your life all about? What is your purpose in it? What are you good at? What could you improve?

Be objective. Self-reflection and assessment can be a very emotional matter, but try to be detached from the outcome.

Be specific. What have you accomplished, why did you do it? What would you like to accomplish? What bothers you? Why does it bother you? What do you like about yourself?

Keep things in perspective. You're only human, and nobody, including yourself, should expect perfection of you.

Write things down. Putting something in words helps you to be specific. You can write in whatever way you feel comfortable expressing yourself.

View your "It, not It" List from day one of the blog I posted..... Call it “living from the heart and Soul”~ Passion guidance.You will be amazed what you find out about what you want and need to heal your heart and soul! Find your purpose and passion, we all need them!!!! Have a beautiful "Be Honest with yourself day" Much Love, Diane

"Being entirely honest with oneself is a good exercise.” – Sigmund Freud“

Be Silly. Be honest. Be kind.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

I was once afraid of people saying, “Who does she think she is?” Now I have the courage to stand and say, ‘This is who I am.’” – Oprah Winfrey