Stay true to who you have always have been, don't change for others... I have never really changed in who I am, even in times of transition ~ A small example: I turn down lots of invitations, am not much for small talk and spending nights or days going places I do not want to be...I feel my free time is very valuable and I have always chose how I spend my my free time wisely, and while I appreciate my many friends, I am not here to see how many I can accumulate...and while I also enjoy the many friendships I have (and it is really nice knowing them) I like to very much limit my time that is free to be spent mostly with family only, occasionally seeing few very close friends when I can..I love my quiet time ~ love spending it listening to music, writing, being in and enjoying nature, also sometimes watching movies...Never been big on being somewhere just to fit in socially, or engaging in small talk or going to dinners when I don't want to be there with random people....Always stay true to who you are, it is amazing the gift of inner peace...Have a wonderful day or night~Diane