Day 33 Be Inspired to be your best~

We must Inspire our own Individual essence In life. We must fulfill our own heart and soul. No other person can make you truly happy, you must achieve It on your own. One of the biggest mistakes we can make Is to think another can make us happy within. It is nice to have a relationship or a spouse, to ADD to your life, but you must be fulfilled in your life and goals and keep that relationship as the "desert" In life.

I really have been around people who self esteem was so bad, they tried to pull me down to their level, and then they themselves try to be that person to pick me or my spirits up, (after they themselves pulled me down) BLAHHHHHHHH....Manipulative, controlling and so unhealthy, and create unhealthy dependence. Luckily for me I am strong willed enough to stay away from this type of character....

We must lift up our own lives, fulfill our own needs. You know you are on the right road, when you are not dependent on another to do this for you. In order for your life or relationships to be happy, you must depend on yourself, and not change, when you come Into a relationship, you must keep who you are and have healthy love for you first, then another. If your life Is not where you want It~Seek God to help you fulfill your desire to change.

Unfortunately In the US we are living In a culture that has many faults. So much emphasis on the outer shell not Inner, creating paranoia In people, so much emphasis that more Is better, we are not seeking better education, dependence problems, and so many labels. We are living In a society where most drugs given can be "quotas" to be met In being sold, without understanding long term effects....People seemingly have so many blessings, yet are truly sad.

I limit my TV watching, too many negatives on TV. I suggest If you are sad, get in nature as much as possible, serve others, exercise daily, turn off the TV, seek healing techniques, watch your diet, investigate healing supplements, be very careful of drugs. "BE VERY CAREFUL" of the assumption's that one pill can cure everyone. We cant make one certain pill for everyone, and think It will solve all, as TV ads suggest. Many unknown factors with the brain. Try training and improving your own mind, we all have high and lows, try healthier coping skills and techniques first.

The law of attraction Is, If your are down, you will get more down, If you are up you will get more up. TRUTH! When you consider the prospect of controlling your health with the power of your mind, do you dismiss this idea??? You yourself have the power to remove "stinking thinking" Diseases sometimes occur in families because patterns of diseases are reinforced in conversation and expectations. People “learn” that they are supposed to get certain diseases... If you think and are told you will, you will. CHANGE YOUR THOUGHTS!

Well, just like every other aspect of the human existence, it is your belief system that serves as the foundation for your results. For that reason, don’t even start considering the details of how such a thing is done if you are not even willing to consider it as a possibility.

It will help you to bridge the doubt gap by embracing the very real fact that every single thing that exists is made up of energy, including your body. The actual form that something takes is simply a matter of the speed at which that thing’s energy is vibrating. What you put out In energy Is what you get.

So, in a universe that is made up of vibrating energy, learning to control those vibrations is the key to creating or destroying all things that are in your existence ~ including your own body.

The amazing gift that we all have as human beings is the ability to exert conscious control over our emotions, which are also just another form of vibrating energy.

So, if everything is energy, and we can control the vibration of our energy, then we can use the Law of Attraction to bring into our existence only the vibrations that we wish to have ~ including those that are consistent with vibrant, long-term health.

Effectively using the Law of Attraction holds great promise for empowering the individual to improve the quality of his or her life. However, people often think words activate the Law of Attraction and become frustrated when words don’t produce the desired results. Empty words (words without heart and soul felt emotions as the basis) contain very little power to influence the Law of Attraction.

Be very good to yourself In your day but stop thinking of only yourself, have empathy, help others, be cheerful, you can't believe the rewards In serving others. Stop negative thinking, and victim thinking ASAP. Get out and make someone Else's day.....
If you are depending on another for happiness, a good read would be:
Healthy Dependency: Leaning on Others Without Losing Yourself
by Robert F. Bornstein "Four key steps to achieving balance through love,family, friendships, parenting and work"

Healthy Dependency: Leaning on Others Without Losing Yourself
A guide to reconnecting and achieving healthy relationships in every area of your life, by two distinguished psychologists. Asking for help does not mean we are helpless, Drs. Bornstein and Languir and tell us. Especially in difficult times, it is more important than ever to connect with the people around us. Their more than twenty years of research and study prove that too ...


When you give up seeking acceptance from others, your fear of rejection will disappear. Have control over your life starting TODAY~ Much LOVE & Wishes for Happiness. Diane